There would be no success without failure, because success does not happen overnight. There is so much work and so many steps that need to be taken in order to become successful in any area of our lives.
The important is to be aware all the time. The journey to success will be always impregnated with risks, decisions to make, ideas to put into action, setbacks, unexpected obstacles and even sabotage from other people or yourself. When we see the danger ahead and we are not prepared to face the failure, we might end up self sabotaging our own careers or relationships or goals just to avoid the disappointment. That is a mechanism of coping with failure that means avoiding failure and preventing it to happen by staying away from the risks. It means playing it safe. It means fear.
Fear is not going to bring you closer to success. Fear might keep you away from failure because you want to protect yourself, your business, the people around you, but fear will also keep you away from success. Because you will not be taking an opportunities from fear of the unknown. And there is no way to succeed without trying, without taking those opportunities and facing the uncertainty. And also failing. As a Japanese proverb says, “Fall seven times and stand up eight.”
The most important question to ask yourself when thinking about your life, your goals, and your habits is, “What do I want to achieve?” For example, if you want to live in Italy one day, one of your most important goals is likely to learn Italian. How do you begin learning the Italian language? You would make it a habit to study Italian for several hours per week. That brings you to the topic of how to form that into a habit.
Habits are learned and everybody learns differently. Use the strategies listed below and experiment a bit with yourself to see what works best. Once you have a great strategy for learning new habits, you can begin thinking about your life, your goals, and the habits that you want to learn in order to get you where you want to be in life.
What Is Positive Thinking?
Positive thinking is all about seeing the bright side of things no matter what. In other words, teaching yourself to perceive things in a better light rather than worse, consciously. Why is this good? A positive person attracts positive things and hence, is able to live a better, fuller, healthier and most important of all happier life.
It is very important that you make up your mind to see the good, the silver lining, in every situation. Only when you master this art, you would be able to move through life (relatively) unscathed by the troubles it throws at you. As Abraham Lincoln said, “We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.” It’s just the way you look at it.
Positive thinking is always hoping that the best happens, but not blindly. You are aware that things could go wrong and of what could go wrong and you prepare yourself to prevent any mishaps. Whenever things do go wrong, instead of despair you see a new opportunity.
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